BANGKOK, THAILAND It's impossible to not notice the belly now. Huffing and puffing up stairs with the extra front load. The turtle paced walk down the street. The constant need to pee. Cankles. Little feet and knees digging into my ribs, kicking me in the belly button. Tired, tired, tired.
We have no idea what to expect in the coming months - but do anticipate that life will change. It will become more sleepless. And maybe more rewarding. We will become a family of three. We'll join the ranks of parenthood. We're excited and nervous and all of that for Baby Goss' entrance into the world. [I do admit that while I'm excited to meet the little individual who's been occupying my stomach for the past 9 months, I'm also really ready to not be pregnant anymore!]
As a celebration of the past 28 years of individual-ness and the year of excitement and change to come, we took these photos on my 29th birthday. It was a fun time indeed - and nice to remember just how big a girl can get when 9 months pregnant.
-amie
While Amie has been visiting the hospital for weekly checkups, I've also kept myself busy, at various other hospitals. For me it's been avoiding death by rabies. Ever since my great idea to 'get down to the river' at Kanchanaburi and a dog chomped my leg in defiance, I've been preventing rabies full time. I recommend anyone in Asia not vaccinated to get the pre-bite shots immediately. In Bangkok it is only $10 x 3 shots = $30. The 'post-exposure' treatment is a lot more involved.
Here's an account of my visit today. Needles #1 then #2 in my forearm to see if I react to equine (from horse) immune globulin. Side effects, ironically enough, involve wheezing and hoarseness in the first 30 minutes. This was not the case for me so then I get needle #3 in my upper arm which is my 2nd shot of 5 (separate hospital visits) for rabies vaccine. This was painful enough but stopped abruptly when I realized what was next - a huge syringe with 16ml of equine rabies immune globulin (believe me A LOT OF LIQUID!). This was administered via needle #4, #5, #6, and #7 around the dog bite area. After the shock of that prodding wore off, I realized the syringe had barely decreased. The final squirts came through needle #8 into my untouched forearm and #9 into my left buttocks followed by the final needle #10 into my right buttocks. I seriously have 6 bandaids covering needle entry points across my body. Back for more in 3 days!
-steve
NEAR PHNOM PENH, CAMBODIA One of the biggest events in Cambodia for swimmers is the annual Mekong River Swim. Since most Cambodians would not dare attempt, it ends up being largely an expat event.
This year, about 150 people participated in the race. Everyone lines up on the riverbank, the megaphone screams 'go' and everyone beelines it for the other side. Two things to watch for - beelining for the other side usually means you get pushed by the current downstream so make sure to compensate along the way. Also, fast speed and inexperience leads to a large consumption of Mekong water, which I can assure is far below potability standards.
When all the results were in, I placed #68 (about 16 minutes) which is pretty bad but not embarassing concidering no preparation or training whatsoever. More information at Mekong River Swim
-steve-
Was reminded of just how disturbing speedos are at the Mekong Swim this morning in PP.
03 April 2011 at 09:50
Hahaha! I was thinking the same and had my own silent meditation... please be time to put on pants; please be time to put on pants.
03 April 2011 at 15:13
or maybe they should just be outlawed altogether. I would like that. :)
03 April 2011 at 15:48
Ha =)
04 April 2011 at 08:37
Epic
06 April 2011 at 11:10
DHAKA, BANGLADESH Jeroen and I had a chance (as Kamworks) to visit the thriving solar energy scene in Bangladesh. We made many friendships and connections through our visits to various solar companies, factories and projects like the famous Grameen Shakti for example.
Here are some more thoughts from inside smog encircled Dhaka:
Pedal power still dominates small scale transport. Where other areas in asia have moved to tuktuks, auto-rickshaws and motorbike taxies, cycle carts, cycle remorque, and especially cycle rickshaws dominate Bangladesh.
Dhaka is bumper-car central. It isn't a question of avoiding bumps - it's more of preparing for the inevitable. 90% of vehicles are suped-up with additional bumper guard bars, perfect for the rush hour smack. Buses get it the worst - there is no point repairing them anymore. Scrapes and bumps line the side of busses and the corners are all beat in.
In tribute to the hilarious blog, Stuff Expat Aid Workers Love, Bangladesh EAWs love their elite membership clubs. There's a club for everything - golf club, officer's club, flying club, ladies club, and of course every country's club - American club, Dutch club, Scandinavian club, Canadian club, international club (you name it!). A non-alcoholic country with limited night-life culture and the near non-existent tourism industry has driven the expats to near colonial era proportions. Refuge from the poor countryside and dirty cities forces EAWs to congregate in the security and luxury of member only clubs. Have a nice imported beer and a pleasant swim!
Despite the horrendous pollution, past the traffic-choked streets and amongst the overpopulated residences, people are very open about a life of tough experiences with glimmers of hope for the future.
-steve-
love that you guys cycled...just fitting in you know. :)
17 March 2011 at 17:26
No shots from within the hotel? :D
18 March 2011 at 12:01
It sounds like an interesting trip. Do they have an EAW Solar Club yet? I look forward to hear much more. Pelle
19 March 2011 at 11:12
PHNOM PENH, CAMBODIA With Baby Goss on the way, we outgrew our last house and moved into another. The new house is closer to great friends, enhanced by a more "local" feel (including extremely high population density of people and animals), and has lots of room for us to get used to.
This is what it looks like.
looks nice!
03 April 2011 at 18:45
oh, I wish I could fly there and be with you and kiss you belly and then hold your baby!!! Miss you!!
03 April 2011 at 20:03
Awesome Amie!!
03 April 2011 at 20:19
congrats on the new living quarters. have you gone to Bangkok yet? have you picked names? praying for safe delivery and a healthy baby.
03 April 2011 at 22:31
WHOOHOOO congratulations! How fun!
04 April 2011 at 00:20
Looks gorgeous, Amie. You look great, by the way. It's been a while since we've been in touch. Life looks good with you guys! And I am mightily impressed -- two years of bucket washing?!
04 April 2011 at 01:13
I love your new place. It is so fun to see where Baby will be.
04 April 2011 at 03:48
I also love the man skirt, Steven!
04 April 2011 at 03:48
Your new place looks fantastic Amie! I'm sure you will really come to appreciate the washing machine once baby comes!!! You are looking great as well, how much longer. I'm less than 3 weeks now and really getting excited to meet our newest addition and for Zander to become a big brother. All the best with your remaining days as a two-some. PS: That mango jam looked amazing!
04 April 2011 at 06:03
Looks great. What part of the city are you in now?
04 April 2011 at 08:51
Very nice new house. I'm glad that you moved there!
04 April 2011 at 13:28
Congratulations on both the house and the baby! You guys will be such fun parents. Take care.
05 April 2011 at 00:00
Where is your new house?
05 April 2011 at 00:00
Hey guys! Looks like the new place is perfect! Where is it located?<BR>We're thinking of you as you prepare for your little one... So excited to hear the good news!!
05 April 2011 at 00:00
New place is in Boeng Tumpoan (south of dike 271)
05 April 2011 at 00:00
What's wrong with doing clothe diapers by hand! That's under 60 a week. No problem!
05 April 2011 at 06:35
kay -- that's hilarious. I'll probably be moving to bucket washing pretty soon. My washer is on drugs.
06 April 2011 at 11:08
Absolutely. Plump, pleasant and rosy-cheeked:)
23 May 2011 at 00:00
Say I am hoiping you are fat and well. TOO FUNNY how cultural differences are with regards to the female body shape. You are beautiful and fine Amie-just the way you are! To people in third world countries where starvation is real, fat means prosperity I believe.
23 May 2011 at 00:00
PHNOM PENH, CAMBODIA Being pregnant in Cambodia has its benefits. Cambodians loooooove everything to do with children and they are tickled pink that we have finally come to our senses and are being a normal couple. (Waiting over five years to have kids after getting married is completely incomprehendable in this culture.)
The past few months have been a lot of fun in our different cultural approahces to babies, pregnancy and kids. Cambodians are particularly concerned about me these days. Most days I feel like a big bellied rock star. (At least now, I'm not just considered fat!)
You know you are pregnant in Cambodia when...
-every day you arrive at the office on your bicycle and at least three colleagues cluck their tongues in disapproval and ask you when you are going to stop riding that baby killing machine. Before you leave the office, your colleagues do a weight test to make sure it isn't too heavy for a pregger to carry.
-people stare at your stomach. all the time.
-you reach up on your tip toes to write at the very top of the white board and your colleagues gasp "NO!!!" in unison. Confused, you ask what is wrong. They tell you that you should never stand on your tip toes and stretch your arms because the umbilical cord might become detached.
-when wearing maternity clothes, a couple of girls ask you why in the world you are still wearing pants (and not a mumu which is Cambodia's preferred pregnancy attire).
-the staff in Bangkok's public transit system, will not let you go through the normal entrance way. They insist the 'lady with baby' must go through the excess baggage/disability gate.
-everyone looks at you with great pleasure and approval and says, "oooh! Ptea Pua" (house stomach) followed by questions like: how many months are you, is it a boy or a girl, etc.
-you receive no end to pregnancy advice and do's and don'ts.
Sometimes it's hard to tell where cultural wisdom ends and superstition starts. But one thing is for sure, Cambodians have a deep respect for children and pregnancy. The enthusiasm of our Cambodian friends (and complete strangers!) makes us more excited about this new adventure too.
It's a pretty amazing, community experience. And so, we want to hear your comments too. What gender do you think it is. And why?
-Amie
flat stomach = girl, sharp stomach = boy. so it's a boy
21 February 2011 at 20:00
GIRL, I don't tell my reason.Believe me!
21 February 2011 at 21:06
I am extremely poor at predicting so I won't. It doesn't matter to me, I just can't wait to hold my grandbaby!
21 February 2011 at 22:41
It's a girl.
22 February 2011 at 00:08
Girl! Just what I have pictured you guys with since you've been pregnant!
22 February 2011 at 00:09
boy or girl, girl or boy will be a gift from God to be loved and cherished; win-win.
22 February 2011 at 01:04
I don't know if it's a boy or a girl, but all I have to say is that you are such a cute pregnant lady!! (Also, that is HILARIOUS about the umbilical cord! I haven't heard that one!)
22 February 2011 at 06:47
Hi guys!!..First of all--I have this special gift of predicting baby gender, I have never been wrong and I don't need ultrasounds,:) just pictures..now 1 picture of Amie is a little rough but from 1 picture it looks like a boy..more pics=more accuracy..thus said I wish you all the best and an easy labour and delivery Amie..Can't wait to see what you think about that, having been through it 4x-what a "journey" that is haha..Love you guys!!xoxoxo
22 February 2011 at 09:53
boy - just guessing!
22 February 2011 at 15:32
girl. so she can marry cedar.
23 February 2011 at 09:09
Sheila says that it is definitely a GIRL!!
23 February 2011 at 11:54
Amie and Steve I can't believe you have had your second ultrasound and you're still not sure. WELL, I am sure. The wiggling thing you are carrying around with you IS A GIRL. And I have never been wrong since!!!!!!!! LOVE MOMMA
24 February 2011 at 05:52
Haven't caught you two on facebook for awhile - so the preggers picture is catching me up with your news - congratulations to you both! I am sure you will embrace this new adventure in your life the same way you embrace all of your life - with excitement and wonder. Hugs to you both.
24 February 2011 at 21:39
girl. nearly 100% sure. i'll say 95%. i had a dream where you guys told me that. & by "you guys", i mean probably God manifesting as you. or maybe i'm a false prophet by mistake...in thayt case, oops. :)
25 February 2011 at 12:29
Alright, it's guessing time: My track record isn't as great as Aunt Sharon's, but I've just got this feeling deep down inside. I'm all girl all the way. I'm so thrilled for you guys and can't wait!
28 February 2011 at 06:17
I am guessing boy! Seems like that's the trend. I know it doesn't work that way, but I am just guessing. Although someone has to have a girl! That would be fun.
06 March 2011 at 03:54
Girl! (your belly in the first photo looks exactly like my sister-in-law's when she was pregnant with my niece!) Awesome job putting a diaper on the magic bullet. Now try something that squirms and pees on you! ha ha :) very excited for you guys on this next adventure!
08 March 2011 at 03:32
Girl. Definitely. And, you will name her Heather. You're welcome.
08 March 2011 at 04:27
sorry, i think i am the latest in this guessing. i thought you have a baby girl.
08 March 2011 at 13:04
You look great! and very happy. Glad to see and hear all the excitement.
13 March 2011 at 15:12
We think it's a girl:) We love your blog! Thanks for sharing all the fun pregnancy stories about Cambodia...I sometimes miss being pregnant in Cambodia...I keep thinking about how people were so concerned about that the baby would not have enough air to breathe when I was wearing the maternity jeans... Look forward to meet you guys when we come back in August!
02 April 2011 at 22:58
Praying all goes well. Baby has turned?
12 April 2011 at 18:06
PHNOM PENH, CAMBODIA 2010 is already 2 months past, hard to believe but true! But there were a few adventures we never got around to posting. And well, better late than never right? In the last half of 2010, we celebrated Pii Chnam Haoy (Two years already!) in Cambodia. Steve's cousin, Cheryl, visited us in October and we loved the reminders of family and home, and the excuse to get out and tackle one of Cambodia's mammoth mountains, Bokor.
Here are a few photos of 2010's later adventures.
-amie
Awesome band photo!
12 March 2011 at 17:22
Loved this bus ride... Remember the rain and wind! Brr!!
12 March 2011 at 17:22
Domestic Goddess!!
12 March 2011 at 18:35
GREAT pictures!!
13 March 2011 at 00:14
cinnamon rolls? can i come over?
15 March 2011 at 10:06
I should learn to hide my fear of heights and high winds a little better ;)
13 May 2011 at 07:05
KOH KONG, CAMBODIA Koh Kong city and surrounding area have been undergoing a major revival over the last couple years. Last time we were here in 2008 the place was a hole and we avoided it ever since. Now that bridges replace all ferry crossings towards the provincial capital, attractions, restaurants, ecolodges, and guesthouses are popping up everywhere. We took a long weekend to inspect the progress. This involved checking out waterfalls, a crazy temple recreating Buddhist hell, and sampling Asia's premier animal shows at Safari World.
-steve-
Nce baby bump ;)
13 January 2011 at 21:29
Oh Amie, you are beautiful! Look at that little baby! So cute!!
13 January 2011 at 21:52
Great pictures! You guys have the best adventures.
13 January 2011 at 22:11
Looking good Amie!
13 January 2011 at 23:55
Looking amazing! :)
14 January 2011 at 00:08
You look great Amie! Great "bump"! Motherhood suits you!
14 January 2011 at 01:15
... I can never tell... but you look amazing Amie - saw Sheila and Wayne last weekend and they are soooo excited!!
14 January 2011 at 01:17
OMG congrats on the upcoming bundle of joy! When are you due?
14 January 2011 at 07:51
great pic... and looking pregnant!
14 January 2011 at 12:39
What beautiful pictures! And I LOVE the baby belly!!!! Congratulations, guys!!!!
15 January 2011 at 11:13
I am glad you are having some fun... I hope you did not bike there :)
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Thinking of you guys!
12 April 2011 at 19:24
Amie - excited for you both. Looking forward to pictures of that new babe in a few weeks.
12 April 2011 at 19:50
Deep breaths, everything will be great and I'm sending happy delivery thoughts your way!
12 April 2011 at 20:06
I'll be praying for you guys. Stay strong Amie.
12 April 2011 at 20:45
Good luck Amie. Hope all goes well; it is such a blessing and miracle.
12 April 2011 at 21:30
Praying for you guys Amie!! Can't wait to hear the exciting news!
12 April 2011 at 21:36
Excited for you and Steve, and looking forward to pics' of the wee one.
12 April 2011 at 21:40
Good luck! Enjoy the first few days of having a baby... They are definitely the quietest!
12 April 2011 at 23:18
So excited for you! Can't wait to hear your family news! Our prayers for a good delivery and that this baby turns on time! Really hope we can connect when you are here and that you can make it for our little Canadian CBC reunion!
12 April 2011 at 23:28
so exciting!! good luck and remember to BREATHE!!! lots a lluv
13 April 2011 at 04:53
Oh my! May it all be wonderful...and an easy delivery :-)
13 April 2011 at 13:09
Exciting time for you!! It was fun to see your Mom and Dad yesterday.
13 April 2011 at 20:43
arrrr..just missed ya! Back in Battambang yesterday. How is baby gymnastics going hun?? c: x
13 April 2011 at 23:19
sad I missed the shower and haven't seen you all... but maybe I'll see you in BKK :)
14 April 2011 at 19:26
Enjoy your time (the last weeks/days with only the two of you) and I'm looking forward to the first pics!
14 April 2011 at 20:32
is huge.
16 April 2011 at 21:19
huge is good!
16 April 2011 at 23:10
I'm so excited for for Baby Gosselin's arrival!! Pictures ASAP when the baby comes please ;)
17 April 2011 at 01:15
but at least you have a really good excuse!
17 April 2011 at 11:06
Can't wait to see you! We're on our way Friday!
17 April 2011 at 11:30
HUGE is good in your state! When is your due date?
17 April 2011 at 11:59
huge is so pretty on you!
17 April 2011 at 12:01
Amie... I can't stop thinking about your baby on the way, so I can't imagine what you guys are feeling! Are you finding stuff to do in BK or just chilling, working?
18 April 2011 at 11:08
amazing, now just one more arrival!!
24 April 2011 at 19:31
oh you are all just too cute! Amie I can't wait for the little one to come!!!
24 April 2011 at 21:45
Oh dear! So sorry, friend!
26 April 2011 at 22:48
I've been to that hospital! before the dog bit you did he say something along the lines of, "you ate my cousin, prepare to die"...?
26 April 2011 at 22:52
go Amie! You look great! Hope all goes well in these next weeks!
26 April 2011 at 23:09
I know you must be feeling miserable about now, but you look so cute you are making me miss being pregnant!!
26 April 2011 at 23:24
Poor Steve, you look pretty pathetic. No more playing with the wildlife. haha
27 April 2011 at 00:47
congrats amie! excited for you and your family! xo
27 April 2011 at 06:51
You look great! I hope I get to see baby Gosselin before we leave 2 June. Praying for a smooth delivery.
27 April 2011 at 08:56
oh that is no fun at all...
27 April 2011 at 09:29
You look wonderful my dear
27 April 2011 at 09:49
Leo had to go through those when we were in the Congo. After that we all were immunized. Even having all those shots is better than the alternative at least. Thinking of you often these days.
27 April 2011 at 09:55
Go, Amie, go!!!
27 April 2011 at 10:09
pity guy
27 April 2011 at 10:57
your stomach is bigger than what i saw in here.
27 April 2011 at 10:59
you look so pretty with your big belly!:) we think about you guys a lot and hope will go well with the delivery!..and look forward to the life with baby...we really like it. even though it takes lots of energy...
28 April 2011 at 00:56
Looking great, Amie! So excited for you guys! :)
28 April 2011 at 02:04
you look beautiful Amie! look forward to hearing the news
30 April 2011 at 21:05
Is there a distance rule for pregnant women? Or just from guys who are rabid? Haha.
30 April 2011 at 22:08
while we're waiting for your baby to come, we're making your mango jam. our first attempt ended up ok, but not as sweet and thick. do you remember how long you cooked yours for, and how much sugar you added? our trees are bursting with mangos right now : )
01 May 2011 at 07:23
your belly almost looks pointy!
01 May 2011 at 21:14
dear baby, aren't you fully cooked yet?
03 May 2011 at 10:14
is your supposed due date tomorrow?
03 May 2011 at 10:23
supposed due date is 4 days away. that feels like forever.
03 May 2011 at 21:15
Still playing the waiting game????...Thinking about you all..<3
03 May 2011 at 23:35
Hang in there! Baby will be here before you know it and you'll forget the 'bigness' of everything!
04 May 2011 at 22:13
We're all waiting for the Thai-Canadian baby human!
05 May 2011 at 03:15
Nice that things always change!
05 May 2011 at 04:10
Happy Anniversary today! Can't wait to hear baby news soon!
08 May 2011 at 04:13
Happy Mother's day! Maybe baby will make a surprise visit?
08 May 2011 at 18:40
I've been trying to send messages all day to baby girl telling her that TODAY is her day!!!! Praying that she will get the message SOON!!!!
08 May 2011 at 22:07
Well your mom had a surefire way of inducing--tried that?..how about a good old game of ultimate frisbee-go for it Amie :):)Strap that baby belly and run..easy for me to say..natural induction way easier then a medical one:)
09 May 2011 at 00:07
We've been thinking about you both everyday!
09 May 2011 at 07:22
This is the first lesson in parenting, right? Hang in there...
09 May 2011 at 07:24
as my mom has said, babies first exercise their independence by choosing which day they'll come into the world. not much we can say about that!
09 May 2011 at 07:25
A LOT of people are waiting for this baby Amie and Steve--Hurry up--:):):)Promise you will post pictures fast{get through the labour first tho:):)
09 May 2011 at 07:40
So frustrating for you two, I did explain to connor how late he was. Dont ask. Pass the time by asking your dad about his '70's wardrobe...we also found your grandpa's university transcripts today in some of mom's stuff. Oh my...
09 May 2011 at 10:18
Lol just wait until the baby comes! That's when you'll need the patience. Thinking of you guys and saying a little prayer it happens soon and all goes smoothly
09 May 2011 at 11:59
hehe I got a calendar update at 7pm which startled me: Baby goss due 7pm.
09 May 2011 at 15:24
Hang in there Amie! I think she's coming... :)
09 May 2011 at 16:32
Shopping for Two is a Convenient Shopping Guide for Momslabor cookies...
09 May 2011 at 18:04
i understand...believe me all babies have been born so far. None have stayed in the belly forever!
09 May 2011 at 18:14
have you tried the maternity acupressure?!?
09 May 2011 at 20:53
I'm thinking about you!
09 May 2011 at 23:00
Senan was two weeks late...I feel your pain, Every night I went to sleep hoping I would get back pain or any sign of labor. It will come and life will never be the same. Enjoy your last few hours as just Steve and Amie.
11 May 2011 at 06:40
cute!
11 June 2011 at 22:49